It’s possible that I’m the only one who has recurring “Bad Mom Days.”
But I doubt it.
Goals are wonderful things, but they don’t always pan out like we intend them to. (That’s code for: Sometimes we downright fail.) I don’t know if you’ve seen President Monson’s New Year’s message or not, but one paragraph at the end of it has been rolling around in my mind a lot this week. It’s a great reminder that new years are great, but new days are even better, and trying again and again and again is what keeps us on the right track.
Courage is required to make an initial thrust toward one’s coveted goal, but even greater courage is called for when one stumbles and must make a second effort to achieve.
Have the determination to make the effort, the single-mindedness to work toward a worthy goal, and the courage not only to face the challenges that inevitably come but also to make a second effort, should such be required. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says, “I’ll try again tomorrow.”
That little voice is a true friend because it points us toward the Atonement, repentance, forgiveness, and starting over.
So imagine me riding on my horse on the battlefield of motherhood waving my banner and shouting to all the mother masses, “Courage!” (That just means get up again tomorrow and try again. You’re doing better all the time.) Or I guess all that imagination really isn’t necessary if you just listen to the prophet instead. Yep, probably better to do that. Because me on a horse is kind of a stupid idea.
I might get a banner anyway.
If anyone has a link to President Monson’s talk (It’s called “Living the Abundant Life”), feel free to paste it in the comments so others can read it. It’s a good one. My dad sent me a copy by email, but I haven’t found it online yet.