Isn’t Christmastime lovely? And doesn’t winter really stink once Christmas is over?
Here are a few myths that are planted in children’s minds during a holiday vacation that are very hard (yea, even painful) to extract once the holiday is over:
1. Everytime you turn around you will have a new present. (Before you judge my parenting, please know that while I am a contributor to this and the other myths, it’s not all my fault. There are generous family and friends everywhere, and things just get out of control!)
2. You can eat whatever you want, whenever you want it, and candy for breakfast is fine.
3. We will spend our days thinking of fun things to do together.
4. All chores and routines are pretty much out the window.
5. There are lots of grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and other loved ones available anytime you want to play a game or otherwise need assistance.
I’m sure there are other myths too (feel free to add your own to the list), but these are the ones that haunt me the most now that we’re back to real life.
My children are convinced that I am the Grinch, Scrooge, and the Snow Witch combined because I will not let their mythical expectations continue unchecked. It’s like they’ve completely forgotten how to put clothes in the hamper, clear their dishes, put everything they need in their backpacks every day, do chores and homework, entertain themselves, OBEY, and speak to me without complaining about how unfair their life is.
Someone tell me this will get better soon because I’m thinking about canceling the holidays next year. Do they make Christmas rehab?