It’s 4- something in the morning and I’ve been lying awake in bed for over an hour, so I thought “Hey, maybe I should get up and do something productive since I’m not sleeping.” And blogging sounded a lot more fun then laundry. I don’t suffer from insomnia; I could sleep for a day straight probably, but when I get woken up (my children pee in their beds through their nighttime diapers on a regular basis and we have midnight sheet changing rituals. My pediatrician swears it’s normal, but I’m ready to hook everyone up to some kind of automatic electro-shock system and stop giving them liquids after breakfast.), well, then I think too much and it’s hard to go back to sleep.
So, lucky you. Welcome to my sleep-deprived midnight musings.
With all the sickness around here lately, and a handful of unexpected drama in other areas of my life, there’s been a sense of trudging knee-deep through some drudgery lately. I won’t lie, I’ve felt overwhelmed and run-down. I can feel it getting better now as it always does once you just get through it and start to get to the other side. Matt’s been down with the flu the last couple days and Natalie’s been taking care of him by bringing him pieces of candy (from the Great Pumpkin stash she discovered) and asking him if he feels better. Matt, recognizing her nurturing instinct, said, “Natalie, thanks for taking care of me. Are you like a mommy?” She nodded and smiled and replied, “I’m a mudder (mother).” Then she called me in the room and said, “Guess what mom? I’m a mudder.” I watched her with her kindness, and pride in her new title, and it was a grounding moment for me. She saw the value in that nurturing role, embraced it, and wore it with pride. There are days I forget that, but guess what everybody? I’m a mudder.
I had an experience this week where some good intentions went wrong and I offended someone. I know that I have a strong personality (I like to call it “resolute”), but I don’t think I’m controlling, and I really really hate contention, so I try not to rustle up fights or drama. I may have offended people many times and not known about it, but in this case, I was was made quickly and abruptly aware of my offenses. Can I just say humility sucks? It is hard to step back when you feel under attack and realize that maybe you need to make some improvements. I had to pray my way through this one and then have a nervous-stomach, heart-pounding conversation and apologize for my mistakes. Anyway, the whole drama is not the point, but I just wanted to testify that prayer works. And priesthood blessings. I knew I was heard, and I knew I was not left alone in solving it. I could feel that Heavenly Father understood my heart, but that he also wanted me to acknowledge and change some things. He was so nice about it, but it still hurt a little, as all stretching does. But there’s a new lightness and hope after He helped me understand it better. It’s the beginning of learning process for me.
On a lighter note, I shaved my legs yesterday. Um, maybe I’m running out of substance here. I think I’ll go back to bed.