I pretty much overbooked myself the last couple days, and I survived, and it’s all good. I’ve discovered I can handle high-stress days in small increments (like maybe 2-3 days max), but not over a sustained period of time. It’s nice when it passes and you can sit back and breathe again.
It feels a little indulgent, but several of you have asked about the notes from the fireside I taught last night, so I’ll work on a blog post in the next few days (after I breathe). I saw one young woman recording the whole thing on her iPhone, so I wish I would have just asked her for a copy of it, but oh well. Despite the nerves and the self-induced pressure to just get it right, I felt like it went well. I’m satisfied when I can walk away from a teaching opportunity and say, “Well, that’s the very best I could do.” You just hope it’s enough. For those of you who expressed curiosity, this is what I wore. (I know it was silly of me to post about that, and I really knew the right answer — which you were all so kind to share–, but you have to admit you’d feel the same way if you were going to stand up in front of a group of people as some kind of “beauty” expert. Ha! Even typing that made me laugh.) Anyway, voila:
I know, I know. “[Insert name of real beauty expert* here.], eat your heart out.”
*I couldn’t think of one since I’m so in touch with the fashion world and all.
In the meantime, if any of you are dying to study some great reference material about beauty, modesty, self-image and virtue, here’s a link to a list of things I studied in preparation for the talk. There’s a lot of great direction available to us. It made me realize that our leaders have given us a lot of clear direction, so it’s surprising that there’s still so much confusion. I guess Satan does a good job of scrambling signals.
In other news, after several failed attempts to communicate to Clark my complete dissatisfaction with finding his recently-washed clothing back in his dirty clothes basket instead of put away, I finally decided to take a more practical approach. I informed him on Sunday that he is now in charge of the laundry for a while. I’ve spent the last couple of days teaching him the system. They’ve always sorted their dirty clothes and put away their clean clothes (in theory), but I decided to let him actually wash them all, switch loads, dry them all, fold them all, etc. This photo I took tonight shows you how happy he is about the new arrangement:
Well, that’s about it. I’ll finish up with one of my favorite quotes I found while preparing for the fireside (thank you to my friend Velda for making it look pretty for me):